Poke: Nope, it's done.
Work: Fine.  I have a performance plus problem, which means I hold myself WAY UP HERE and consider everyone else to be way down here and I can't expect them to meet my standards of excellence.  Great.
POF.com: Yay I met a super swell guy, BL.  We have hit it off!  I dig it.  So for now, I'm staying off the website so I can see where this goes.
Money:  Need some.  Lots.  Like $60,000.00 for student loans.  Fucking shit.